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Montague & Capulet: The High Price of Toxic Tribalism

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It’s certainly not a new concept, but the rise of the Internet and social media have done their part to drive tribalism to unprecedented heights. And as Shakespeare so expertly illustrated, dividing ourselves into factions never ends well.

Written in the late 16th century by William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet remains one of the English playwright’s most well-known tragedies hundreds of years on. The story of the conflict between the House of Montague and the House of Capulet was fictional, but the tribalism it described was, and is, all too real a part of human nature. Most of us know how that story ends, but we seldom seem to heed its lesson.

Such tribalism is indeed often a factual story rather than a fictional one. The legendary American feud of the Hatfields and the McCoys is one such example. The deadly conflict between two families in the Appalachian Mountains of the US, which ran from 1863 to 1891, passed into legend in the decades since, having been turned into game shows, theme park musical comedies, a television series, and more pop culture references than you can count.

It’s a bit odd that it’s been so trivialized, but I guess time really does heal all wounds. The actual facts of the long-running feud between two late-19th-century Appalachian families are peppered with hatred, double-crossing, revenge, violence, and murder. The initial causes were fairly benign: a lingering grudge from a property dispute, an argument about the ownership of a hog, and in an unintended homage to Shakespeare’s doomed young lovers, a forbidden romance between one family’s son and the other’s daughter.

The Hatfields of Appalachia: “The family that slays together stays together.” | Image Credit: University of Connecticut

Though not many people are familiar with the actual details of the Hatfields and McCoys, the feud itself is well-known enough to have entered America’s folklore lexicon as a metonym for any bitterly feuding rival factions. Despite the catalysts for all this hatred and fighting being fairly petty, by the time all was said and done, 14 people between the two families were dead, along with four supporters.

Parallels can be seen today between the two major political parties in the US. Deeply polarized, Democrats and Republicans have retreated into warring faction mode, and the country suffers for it, both domestically and on the world stage. The ‘us versus them’ model has threatened to plunge the country into a new era of simmering class warfare, with working-class Americans paradoxically having chosen an elitist billionaire as their presumptive saviour. (In the recent US election, many chose him again, though a lot more ultimately chose the other guy.)

Here in Malaysia, factions have long existed, largely centred around race or religion. By most accounts, the country has done an admirable job of managing the latent tribalism since its last major eruption in the late ’60s, but increasingly, a half-century later, cracks are beginning to show.

In November 2018, a chaotic scene erupted at the Sri Maha Mariamman temple in KL when Malay business owners attempted to seize control of and relocate the Hindu temple | Image Credit: Asia Times via Twitter

Over in Europe, tribal splintering is threatening to undermine the stability and strength of the EU – or has already done so, depending on who you ask. Casting immigrants and refugees firmly into the ‘them’ camp, a xenophobic nationalism has swept through numerous countries in Europe, pushing the continent to what may ultimately be a crisis not easily contained. Only the emergence of the coronavirus pandemic derailed what was looking to be a runaway train, ensnaring to differing degrees countries like the UK, Spain, France, and Germany. The various facets of tribalism – some arguably good, many decidedly less so – were notably laid bare by the long-running Brexit saga, but also by other movements within EU countries.

Europe is of course well-acquainted with the effects of tribalism. The Great East-West Schism saw the Catholic Church split into two tribes – Eastern Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism – nearly a thousand years ago. This long-simmering conflict ruptured in 1054 and persisted for centuries; whether or not it’s ever really been resolved is a difficult question to answer even today.

The Great East-West Schism profoundly influenced the course of European – and human – history | Image Credit: National Geographic

Six centuries ago, the Great Papal Schism – another split within the Catholic Church – ultimately swept through the continent, growing from an internal church problem to an international diplomatic crisis that splintered Europe into opposing factions, with secular states and leaders forced to align with one claimant or another to the Catholic papacy. It took an ecumenical council of some 600 people four years to resolve the schism and repair the damage it had caused. It wouldn’t last long, though, as the Reformation took hold a century later and again divided people into irreconcilable factions – this time Protestantism was added to the two existing tribes of Christendom.

Though each of these splintering events caused no small amount of pain and conflict, people kept breaking themselves into warring factions. They fought, they campaigned, they debated, they even waged war. Eventually, perhaps they figured out that no one tribe was ever going to ‘win’ – and so decided to just find a way to coexist peacefully instead.

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We see this played out today in Islam, too, with its differing factions engaged in ongoing struggles with each other. The major split, long ago, divided adherents into tribes of Sunni, Shi’i, and Khawarij,  with centuries of conflict and bloodshed still being played out today. Will they, too, one day learn the painful lesson of tribalism? That the end game is only an illusion: There is never going to be a lone victor. There are no winners.

The Tài Jí Tú 太極 圖, a well-known symbol of the yin and the yang: contradictory, inseparable, and interdependent | Image Credit: Gwong Zau Kyun 廣州拳 

In Chinese Tao philosophy, one tenet exists of which even many Westerners are aware: the yin and the yang. This concept of duality teaches that supposedly opposing forces, appearing to be contrary and unable to achieve reconciliation, are in fact complementary and interdependent. This notion of balance and interconnectedness is a lesson mankind desperately needs to learn and practice. Conservatives are never going to stamp out all liberals. The Sunni will not ever be the only Muslims. Roman Catholics will never obliterate the world’s Protestants.

Ultimately, for all our bickering and pettiness, the simple fact is – like the darkness needs the light and the push needs the pull – we all need each other. Our differences are certainly real: just ask the Montagues and Capulets. Or the Hatfields and McCoys. But as countless generations who have come before us have bitterly learned, when we allow those differences to propel us into tribes, with that attendant hardline tribal mentality, we engage in a toxic, zero-sum game which we all lose.

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